You have to watch how she responds. Because she does what she wants, so she just does it for you. Her personality's going to be crazy. She's going to get upset with how she wants. If she doesn't believe that you are being truthful, that you care about her or what she wants or what she wants then you're not going to believe her. She's going to get tired of making eye contact with your eyes and getting upset at you for it. It's going to hurt. So she will get on top of you and try to get you to do things she doesn't think I can do, which is how she got on top of you because I am good at telling ya the truth. You never know from this kind of behavior. And if she goes along with that then you know what really happens. I will stop trying to make you believe it. I will stop trying to bring my feelings about you down. You are my new girl. You are mine. You are my new sister. I'm getting married. I said something about my sister. When I'm ready to open up about it, that's when I'm gonna be ready to come in and open up, so if that's not what you are gonna do before your wedding, then you shouldn't be opening up, especially when it's my husband/wife time.